Amud 113b

He saw in him a matter of immorality - שראה בו דבר ערוה

Summary:
There is a permissible hatred (for seeing a דבר ערוה) and a personal forbidden hatred and that needs to be curbed.

And he has no children - ואין לו בנים

Summary:
One is מנודה לשמים for lacking any of the mentioned items, only if it is due to his negligence.

Three, their lives are not lives; hot tempered, etc. - שלשה חייהן אינם חיים הרתחנין כולי

Summary:
The three characteristics mentioned here are born traits.